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I left my husband and love another man (Lisa)
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Dear Sister Lisa,
I think the problems of marriage started when we do not honor our spouse as God wanted us to be. Some discouraging and hurting words cut into the person you might had once love. He or she chose to take revenge in words or even actions and it goes on. We do not prayerfully seek God, instead we shelved God and take things into our own hands. We handled our fate with our earthly values and judgment. We do not surrender to God and ask for His mercy. Worst of all we get another person involved in our life which will not approve by God and make it messier. We do not seek to reconcile with our spouse but tried to avoid solving the problems and making it becoming a deadlock. In situation like this seek God, be sure that divorce is the only way. >From what I can see in the line, your husband might had not committed adultery, however, I am not sure if you had done so since you had love another man. God will not approve that since your first marriage is not over and it might not be a really desperate case. Seek God first, stop seeing the other man for the time being, give yourself some time to cool down. Let God's peace work in you, children are the jewels of your life and is God's blessing in a marriage, don't get them hurt in this situation. Your problem might had even started with your pre-marital pregnancy which was not an approved act by God's standard - as God wants two in wedlock to be pure till the day of wedding for His blessing to be showered unto both of you. Whatever done can not be undone, now seek God's forgiveness for any unpure acts in your life and ask the Holy Spirit to cleanse you from all unrighteousness. Take time to reflect on your life and ask God to show you a way that is pleasing to him. Jesus says: "Until now, you had not ask any thing from me. Ask and you shall be given, that your life may be full. " Our God is a merciful and forgiving God, Him will grant great thing unto your life. I am advising you with my own real life example, cos I am now enjoying my God centered second marriage with a 14 months little girl. My wife was baptised before we married in Church - being a God fearing marriage, it is never the same. God bless, Brother Edward
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How I wish my wife is writing... by Geraldy, 5/06/00
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