How I wish my wife is writing...
I left my husband and love another man (Lisa)
Reply (Edward Kway)
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I bearly married for a few months and my wife wants to leave me for the exact same reason like yours that she does not loves me and loves another.
We had been together for more then five years and in no way that i had treated her badly but care and love her and put her in the top priority in every circumstances. Which she expressed to be too suffocating for her. I am a Christian but has never been as devoted as now and I am in total conflict of logical decision of wanting her to be happy by letting her go and my believes and values that I should hold on and hope that God would bless my marriage and have her return to me. Till far, I would not agree to divorce and could even end up like your husband holding on for 14 years. The difference is that we don't have kids yet. Do you ever thing that you husband never weep or feel sad? I believe he loves you as much like I love my wife. Please go back to him. And follow God's way. Never say you can never love him. Marriage is more than love alone. You must learn to appreciate him and thus he will grow in value in your heart. God permits divorce by definitely does not encourage it. Has your husband been life threatening to you or ever hit you? I guess you husband could have love you in many ways too. Why don't you look at what you have with him and feel contented rather then keep on focusing on the problems and what he can't provide you? And, for you have Christ and you should feel content. God does not approved of adultery, no matter emotional or physical, and I would really suggest that you stop seeing the other guy for he is a believer too and should know that it's wrong to induce you to fall in love with him by been and adulterer. Pray for him and pray for your hushand and reconcile with you husband and I believe he will forgive you. I am praying nightly for my wife and her boyfriend, who also a believer, but whom could be shallow in his faith and believes. How I wish my wife can open up and be less stubborn in her decision. This has caused so much pain and suffering for both of us. And at this point of time, I really don't know how to go on. God bless you my friend. I will pray for you, and please do include me in your prayers. Geraldy (not my real name, but God would know it's me if you pray for me. Thank you so much!)
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