Need help... Suggestions?
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I've meet a christian girl and have been going out with her for several months... Our relation ship got preety serious, and all of that pourted out to the decision to get maried. We have been planing our marige and our life style... I was very honest and open with her, about my weak points and hers as well. I loved her very much and still do, even more... About her, she liked me for 2 years prior our dating, when we started dating, I felt like she loved me, and cared about me and etc... After meeting together for 3-4 months I knoticed irregular reactions toward our dating, althoe she didn't want to meet. I asked if that is the case, she strongly replied that is not true. She started crying without reasons, and would not share what's going on. On one of the dates, she suggested that we shouldn't meet any more.... That was totaly unexpectable. I asked reasons, but recieve nothing but excuses... like want to grow in Christ more before continuing in life and so on.. Later on I found out that she saw some qualities in me that she didn't like and that what threw her of. (I don't know what they are) She said that she wants to freeze every thing for now. She started avoiding me, and up until this day I'm keeping it all inside as well as she is. At time she would keep distance from me, and at other times she would try to get my attention. I'm totaly confused, and she doesn't want to talk about any of this... I'm treating her like we have never been this close, just like any other friend. (I guess this is what she wants) I don't know what to do, what to expect? Was this real love? (or may be she liked me becouse of my apperence, and money?) I've been praying about this, but not recieving an answer for quite some time... 3-4 months is there future together? why do things like this happen? any suggestions? |
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Communication by Lim Su Min, 7/09/00 
some thoughts by rags, 6/12/00
some suggestions by anonymous, 6/12/00
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