Hi Being a girl, I can understand your situation with this guy, who keep going and coming back to you. I would encourage as the others said to keep your mind on God. It's difficult to let go at times, but in your case, I think you should let it go. Focus on God to give you the strength to let go. It will take a while to do that 'cos this is a relationship you did go thru'. Let God heal your hurt, your fustrations, your emptiness, etc. Surrender to God and find solace in His arms. God loves you very much and care for you very much, and doesn't want to see you hurt in anyway. Although he is a Christian, but there are many types of Christians in the world. If he is serious with God, he should know that he can't play with another person's feelings. He will bear consequences to his actions. Take heart, my sister. Rest in His care, love and trust. I would encourage you to pray asking God to see you thru'. Keep your heart for that one man God has prepared for you. Wait upon the Lord to give you. I always believe that God has already predestined for us to meet that one man for each one of us. That man will always be the best for you. That man will be the chosen one from God for you as a gift for the rest of your lifetime. Wait my sister and be patience. I know it is hard to wait at times, but it is really worth waiting for. Let this present guy go. Pray for him though. Let God change him, mold him and shape him to be Christlike, but for you, too, you must pray and commit your life fully to God for His works in you. Seek first the kingdom of God. Know God and build a love relationship with God that is strong and committed. God bless. sister-in-Christ |
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Seek His Kingdom by Rebecca, 8/04/00