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Alencia,
I think you ought to be more alert of whether a guy is sincere or he is playing with words. How can a parent bar a above 21 son from coming home later than 12 midnight only just becos his friend took his dad's CD without his knowledge in the past. I think there is more in the back ground story. It is highly unusual, however, it may be possible. Is he serving the army in case he is a Sinaporean and need to stay in camp before - if he does, why there is an issue of stay out after 12 midnight? In any case he is above 21 and is responsible for all things of his action. May be you ought to stay away from him for the time being.Overdwelling in this situation seems to draw you far away from God to receive His care for you. Let his pastor and cell leader do their parts to find out the truth and to help him in coming back to Chirst and practise his love and desire for God and draw his parents to God if they are not in God's family. When we are caught in a relationship, we just simply can't view any thing from a macro view. May be this guy is playing with your naiveness and hurt you more than loving you. You are young and in your golden age that you ought to have more better things to do like career finding, advancement in study or even a simple thing of serving God in various ways. I would like you to take care of yourself for God's sake. Do let relationship problem haunt you. In Christ's love, Uncle Ted
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